Sikelela abasetyhini bamazwe ngamazwe bahlobo: Usuku lwabasetyhini oluvuyisayo!
Akulunganga ngokwaneleyo ukuba uthembele kwabanye; Awuqolanga ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungathemba zonke iidyasi ezibengezelayo; Abanamandla ngokwaneleyo okuchitha ixesha lokujongana nokudlala kwabo.
Ngolu suku lukhethekileyo, iTianjinYuantai DerunSteel Pipe Manufacturing Group Co., Ltd. inqwenelela abahlobo behlabathi abangabasetyhini iholide emnandi!
Tianjin Yuantai Derun Steel Pipe Manufacturing Group lolona mvelisi inkuluicandelo lomngxuma wolwakhiwoeTshayina. Okwangoku, iimveliso zayo eziphambili ziqukaicandelo elinomngxuma wesikwere, icandelo lomngxuma oluxande,icandelo elijikelezayo elinomngxuma, kwayeicandelo elinomngxunya elimilise ngokukodwa.
Sesiphi isipho osifumene njengowasetyhini ngoSuku lwaManina?
Mhlawumbi nawe uyaqonda ukuba ezi zipho zizama ukuchaza ukuswela kwakho kunye nokulindela kwakho njengowesifazane kweli nqanaba kwimilo ethile, ukusuka kwiimpawu zomzimba ukuya kwisazisi sentlalo.
Ngoko ke, yintoni ibhinqa? Ngaba lipstick, ikhazi okanye isibeleko?
Ngoko, yintoni ayifunayo amabhinqa? Ngaba kukuthiywa ngokutsha kweNkosikazikazi emsulwa, okanye kukuzinikela kwakho ngothando njengeshweshwe lamatye kunye nengcongolo?
Vula ukukhangela okutshisayo, ngaphezu kothando olutsha lweenkwenkwezi zabasetyhini, kukho amahlaya malunga nekamva labasetyhini kwamanye amazwe, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uyanyamalala kude.
U-Angela Carter wabhala kwi "Sade Women": "Kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuba sinokukuthintela oku kuphalazwa kwegazi kubugcisa kodwa kungekhona ebomini, ngenxa yokuba ukubetha, ukudlwengulwa kunye nokwenzakala konke kwenzeka kwiindawo ezifihlakeleyo, kwaye ukulawulwa ngokusemthethweni kunzima ukufikelela. Ingqondo engaqatshelwanga ukuthuthunjiswa egameni lothando kwenzeka ngasese.
Sinikela ingqalelo kwimeko yolu luntu lwesiphelo esiqhelekileyo, kwaye sijolise kwakhona kubomi bangoku kunye nobemihla ngemihla. Sifuna ukuphonononga kwakhona "i-stereotype egameni lothando" ebandakanya abafazi abaqhelekileyo.
Ewe, amadoda akaze aziintshaba, kodwa kufuneka abe ngamaqabane abasetyhini ukuze boyise ukungcola kwezopolitiko zesini:
Andinxibi imilebe ebomvu kwaye ndiyakuthanda ukuphikisa iinyani ngalo lonke ixesha, kodwa ndigcwele amandla.
Ngokufanayo, ukuba ndinxibe izithende eziphakamileyo, ndifake ipolishi yeenzipho kunye neziqholo, ndinokuba yinkwenkwe elungileyo.
Ngolu suku lukhethekileyo, makhe sihlolisise ezi zinto zifakwe isitampu esithi "umama" kwakhona kwimbali, kwaye siqaphele ubudlelwane obuphilileyo phakathi kwesini. Mhlawumbi intlonelo esekelwe ekuqondeni inentsingiselo ngakumbi kunaso nasiphi na isipho.
Ixesha lokuposa: Mar-08-2023
